Showing posts with label Bullies. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Bullies. Show all posts

Thursday, April 12, 2007

Don’t Hate, Educate

When I was in high school, a bunch of the “jocks” used to pick on this kid Robert. They would taunt him and spit on him until he got so angry that he would lose all control. He was never violent towards anyone, but he would yell and cuss and flail his arms uncontrollably. Day in and day out they would harass him. I condemned the behavior of these jocks, but I condemned it in silence. I especially remember J and D spitting on him. That was a vile sight, yet I sat and watched. No one stuck up for Robert. No one stood up to these immature, cruel excuses for boys and demanded that they stop. I feel ashamed for having stood by and done nothing. I can excuse it by arguing that I was only 15 or 16 years old and I didn’t have it together or that there was too much peer pressure, or blah, blah, blah, but the truth of the matter is, I was human, I should have had compassion and the spiritual strength to do something… anything.

Robert had something wrong with him – I think he had a brain tumor, which brought on some kind of mental impairment. This makes the bullying even more abhorrent. What kind of bully picks on the most vulnerable of its population? Well, that’s the same question I’ve been asking at work. I am a public elementary school teacher.


The bullies are the state politicians, school administrators, and in some cases, public opinion. The children are supposed to be a priority, but often times they are not. So this vulnerable part of our population has teachers to stand up and fight for them. But we have our own struggle as well. Right now, the district and school board bullies have refused to give the teachers in my district a fair and equitable salary increase. They have given us no choice but to strike and that is SO difficult for teachers. We have to leave our students. We have to disrupt the routines that so many of them desperately count on. Their education is being sacrificed and compromised by the purse strings of a bureaucracy. And the teachers are forced to live with the upside down pyramid (those that are in place to support the teachers are the ones making the most money). We do all the work with these kids everyday, but are being ignored and disrespected. If the teachers are treated this way, how must "they" feel about the students we are fighting for?